Ghost Boy

The Miraculous Escape of a Misdiagnosed Boy Trapped Inside His Own Body for 12 Years.
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Martin Pistorius

Born to Run By Bruce Springsteen. Suddenly, life and I were colliding. At every turn my eyes opened in wonder as I crashed into new experience: I was starving for information: I was learning to build websites and was accepted on to a university course, becoming one of the first two South Africans with non-functioning speech to graduate. But one thing was missing. It was late afternoon as a group of nursing students visited my care home.

Ghost Boy: My Miraculous Escape from a Life Locked Inside My Own Body by Martin Pistorius

I was lying on a mattress when I felt someone kneel down beside me. I looked up to see a young woman. Long brown hair framed her face: I was filled with a longing so strong it almost made me gasp. I wished I could stretch that tiny moment into forever. The girl who smelled of flowers and sunshine became the world to me. Ever since I started to communicate, my hope was drawn towards women like a moth to a flame, only for me to be burned by their indifference. When I met Joanna, I wondered if she would be different. We met during a family web chat in and started emailing each other, culminating in Joanna suggesting we get together in Britain.

I was curious about why she wanted to meet me. I explained that though I had made huge progress, I still needed a wheelchair and help with many daily activities. One night I wrote to her: I had to tell you. But until now there has never been an opportunity for me to do it.

How happy you make me. I knew, though, I was taking a gamble with Joanna because there would always be a fraction of doubt, however tiny, until we met. The greatest lesson I was learning with her, though, was that living life is about taking chances, even if they make you feel afraid. We hardly saw the rolling hills outside our cottage. Instead we stayed in, sitting or lying side by side, always connected by a hand within a hand, a shoulder against a shoulder or a leg carelessly thrown across a lap.


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I had never known a person who accepted me so completely and had so much peace inside. Instead, we drifted on the current of simply being together. Sometimes I jumped almost in surprise as she touched me — my fingers flexing when she stroked my hand, or my jaw twitching when she kissed my eyes. I never had someone take pleasure in me before. It was the simplest but most perfect of feelings. I found work as a web designer and got used to the small flat we shared.

But for me the two-metre sweep of floor that I could negotiate was my own Hollywood Boulevard, the garden I saw outside the window was the Alhambra, the tiny kitchen where I tried to cook the finest Parisian restaurant. I became stronger in my first few months in England and I could move around easily in the small part of the flat accessible to my chair by pushing off the floorboards with my feet.

My right side was getting steadier all the time. So much of everyday life, though, was literally above me. After deciding tocook supper one night, I tried to dislodge a bag of flour from a shelf using a broom and watched it hurtle down towards me, knowing there was nothing I could do to stop it. Joanna found me — and the flat — covered in flour when she got home that night.

We married in June in a church in Essex. I had a ring made, a wide band of yellow gold, dotted with diamonds and filigree work of two mussel shells nestling together. They represent our love: I would never say words that meant more.

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Each syllable, each line, would reverberate inside me. Was it possible that, one month shy of eight years since I was assessed by Shakila at the University Of Pretoria, I was sitting about to commit my life to Joanna? It was she who has taught me to understand the true meaning of the Bible passage we were having read at the service: My life has encompassed all three and I know the greatest of all is indeed love, in all its forms.

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Then he slept constantly and shunned human contact. Within eighteen months he was mute and wheelchair-bound.

Martin Pistorius

Martin's parents were told an unknown degenerative disease left him with the mind of a baby and less than two years to live. Martin was moved to care centers for severely disabled children. Their boy was gone. Or so they thought.

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We also see a life reclaimed—a business created, a new love kindled—all from a wheelchair. Martin's emergence from his own darkness invites us to celebrate our own lives and fight for a better life for others.