The Girl Who Didnt Care

The problem with the girl that doesn't care is that she's fine on her own. Don't think that just because it's gone away, she's stopped caring.
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Maybe ya'll can find a balance, and you guys will both feel the same way. How old are you and she, if you don't mind me asking. I know exactly how you feel man, I too met a girl who I thought was perfect in every way, attractive, great smile, amazing personality, y'know the type who'd make a great mother to your kids. I thought I had found my soulmate. Well anyway we never really got past the friend stage, I'd see her at a party sometime but we just didn't seem to be able to hit it off. I did ask her out eventually but she said she didn't wanna be more than friends, I was pretty bummed after that happened.

She's dating another guy now last I heard, I don't see her anymore either as I just need to forget her. Thanks for the helpful replies guys. Good news is that this crap is fuel for my fire. The weights will be destroyed tomorrow. You might not want to hear this, but you need to forget about her, move on with your life, and learn from your mistakes.

You never should have told her how you felt. I know, it makes sense at the time. What girl doesn't want to be admired? But it doesn't work. It makes you appear desperate and weak. There's plenty of girls out there, and if you start looking, you'll soon forget about this girl. Next time just be assertive and confident. Simply asking a girl out on a date lets her know your interested. Start telling her how great she is and it will sound like infactuation, which will get you nowhere fast.

Some people say being yourself doesnt work.. It worked with me for awhile with a girl i grew up with.. Always knew something was going on with me and her.. She told me everything.. Like she didnt come over for a few days.. And she did come over.. She got a bf.. I got so pissed off.. Almost fought him numerous amounts of times..

She completely changed to the point where i dont even know her anymore.. None of her friends talk to her.. She spends all her time with him.. And shes lost it.. I do admit i think about her sitll.. But you cant live your life wondering what if.. And she would still have a life then..

The Girl Who Didn’t Care

You gotta take what u can get.. Good Luck and i wish u the best.. For me im going to be a palyer and learning well from sauce on getting chicks thread in the sex forum.. Im working myself up there.. Dude, think of it this way. Put yourself in her shoes. You seem like u are basically smothering her and putting a lot of pressure on her just because she is not as crazy about you as you are about her.

You can't force attraction. If its there its there. What I would do is just cut off all contact with her for a couple months yes it should be at least this long. Then when you see her the next time tell her how wonderful your life is going and how you have met tons of cool girls and that basically everything is going good in your life.

How do you act like you don't care for girls you love?

That way she can see that you are not obsessing over her anymore and have a life outside of her. Girls like to be liked and complimented but they dont want you putting them on a pedestal. It's seen as insecurity and that is one of the biggest turnoffs in males or females. I'm sure you have had girls that are or were crazy about you that called all the time, begged to hang out with you and everything. I bet it drove u nuts, u probably hated it and thought it was so annoying. Humans want their space and no one likes someone that is too clingy.

Just play it chill next time u are around her, dont spill ur guts, dont compliment every five seconds, etc etc. Play it cool and confident and im sure she will see you in a different light. I havnt read all the replies because i am short on time, i am at work. Sorry if this has already been said, but You may be scaring her off with all the emotional out pours and gifts. She may like you but may want to take it slow and by you being so deep with her she may feel that if she gets involved it will go too fast or you may not be on the same level as feelings are concerned.

Be her friend, show her you're a good guy, and things will fall in to place. You gotta hold back those feelings for your own sake.


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Im starting to go through the same thing. There is this beautiful girl that moved in across the street, and i met her at a party. When i laid eyes on her, i was blown away. Like i didn't want to just do her, i wanted to be with her, spend my life with her. Anyhow, at the party we ended up meeting, and found out we had a lot in common. Then i found she lives right across the street, and the next day we hung out and went to an outdoor festival with other friends. After that we have been hanging out alot, and last night she came over and we talked in my living room till 8: Only problem is she thinks its just a friendship.

But im thinking something more, and im afraid if i express myself to her, ill get shot down, and ill never hear from her again. And if i did get shot down, she's still across the street, and seeing her would be a painful reminder. Can i just say guys dont go there your 17 dont fall in da trap. If you got a life of your own shell respect you more, and itll pay off for you. Ive been there done that worn the t shirt. Doesnt want to spend time with you or you have to try hard what's her mind game?: She knows that the one being pursued controls the course of the relationship and she wants to ensure that you dance to her tune early on.

Many women play this game to see how desperate a man is. If you roll over and puppy-dog it at this point, you might as well just put a collar around your neck.

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You already know the generic guidelines your mother drilled into your head: But what you really need is a set of real-world rules for your dealings with the female population, some hard-and-fast basics mom neglected to pass on. Here are 10 of them: They become desperate for sex and keep pursuing a woman when she's only marginally interested or not interested at all , just because they're frantically obsessed with getting their hands on the goodies. Sure, a lot of women are natural game-players -- they love to test men, exert their sexual power, and be pursued.

So expect a little of this at the start. But don't keep asking her out if you keep getting a "No" or "I'm too busy. Even if she has to turn you down, an interested woman will say something like, "But I'd really like to go out. These days there's no excuse -- there's plenty of information available out there on the techniques of lovemaking and what women want.

Or you can quiz a female friend for some pointers on the best way to please a woman. If all else fails, go straight to the source and ask your partner what she likes don't worry, it's not like asking for directions -- you won't lose face. If you take the time to educate yourself, you're going to make a lot of ladies very happy. Go for the babes, don't put up with an attitude and always keep her guessing 3- Always date "over your head" Never, ever settle; never, ever lower your standards just to get a date.

If you see a pretty girl you think is way out of your league, go for it anyway! It's just much more exciting to be with a woman who really turns you on. Unless you're very rich or very handsome, odds are you won't always win, but when you strike gold, you'll be very glad you did. They think with their vaginas -- that is, they expect men to tolerate anything they dish out just by dangling the promise of sex in front of them.

So they feel perfectly free to be bitchy, moody, inconsistent, and rude.

From The Girl Who You Thought Didn’t Care About You

Or they don't return phone calls and break dates at the last minute, expecting you to be nice about it because they know they hold the sexual trump card. Walking north, Flip suddenly grabbed her hand, and they left the road running as fast as cold water through a grassy field until they ended up breathless, backs against the west wall of the United Beverage plant. The plant had shut down a year ago. Hidden from view she suddenly felt like she and Flip were completely alone, as if they were on their own planet, with only each other to explore.

Suddenly they were kissing just like movie stars did, mouths open, tongues extended and wrestling each other. And it was good every time, even when sometimes Flip tasted like a cigarette or pickles. After a little bit Flip pulled back, his face flushed. She hated it when he pulled back like that, like a spooked pony — always right when things were getting interesting.

She wondered if Roger and Frank were right, if it was because of where she lived, or because she was poor — her daddy having been out of work since the plant shut down. She had no idea Flip was doing it for her. He guessed he loved her and he was willing to wait. When she never showed up at home that night, word spread around Calmar almost instantly.

Search parties got set loose; Flip was questioned and ruled out; theories were hatched and butchered rapidly all to no avail. There were no other suspects. It was like she had ridden her bike into another dimension and just disappeared. Outrageous tales explaining the inexplicable began to take root, as they always did at times like these. The prevailing myth seemed to be of alien abduction. Then 5 days later she just came home. She walked through the front door, covered in dried mud but wholly intact… save for the scar.

Her mother fainted and her father, always more practical, called the sheriff even before greeting her. The news hit Calmar like a concussion grenade. She was rushed to the county hospital for a thorough check-up. The only evidence anything had happened at all was the scar and neither their fancy machinery nor the doctors themselves seemed sophisticated enough to conclude just how the scar had gotten there. It was old… well healed over like years had gone by.

Her normal complexion was flawless and tawny, but here she was puckered purple. A design of soft pink flesh embossed on a circle the color of a deep bruise. After racing across the plant parking lot, all she recalled was suddenly sitting on her bike in her front yard. She felt like a page furtively turned by the wind.

The entire hubbub might have passed if not for the scar. And nobody believed that someone could get a scar like that and not know how. People thought she was lying or afraid or brainwashed or mentally deficient or playing a prank. Days passed and people were still asking her everything about the scar. If her shoulder was bare, people followed behind her wherever she went just staring at it, trying to wrap an explanation around it.