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- Spanking, grounding, and yelling: Does old-fashioned discipline work?
- Comments on Spanking and crime rates: Liebe statt Hiebe | The Economist
What I do know is that the whole process of spanking feels utterly stupid, and it makes me feel miserable afterwards. In time, I have realized that what makes me spank my child is not so much about what he does but how his actions make me feel. That is, spanking is not about addressing the cause of the problem, but treating my own frustration and helplessness. I have started to realize that raising a child is much more demanding than I thought, and that I have to devote more time and energy to it.
As I have accepted this and changed my approach, I find that all of us are calmer and happier. There are fewer behavior challenges to begin with, and when they do occur, we resolve them more peacefully and with far less stress. The process has been enlightening.
In acceptance, she told the following story. But one day when her son was four or five, he did something that she felt warranted a spanking--the first of his life. And she told him that he would have to go outside and find a switch for her to hit him with. The boy was gone a long time. And when he came back in, he was crying.
He said to her, "Mama, I couldn't find a switch, but here's a rock that you can throw at me. And the mother took the boy onto her lap and they both cried. Then she laid the rock on a shelf in the kitchen to remind herself forever: never violence. And that is something I think everyone should keep in mind. Because violence begins in the nursery--one can raise children into violence.
It's enough for ME to know that hitting ANYONE is wrong, especially children who are smaller and understand less than us - I don't need to know whether crime figures are going up or down. Hitting is wrong.
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No child wants to be spanked. It borders on barbarity. And it violates basic human rights. You could get arrested. Very naughty.
Excusez-moi but I do not believe the Astrid LIndgren classic illustrating the article played a role in forbidding spanking of children at school and at home in Sweden. The book does not touch upon spanking at all, it is about a girl able to fend for herself, strong enough to lift a horse and with plenty of gold money to pay for her living out that grand dream of all children: having no family at all and going to school only if she feels like it. Difficult matter and one that is important.
Yet the common level of discussion is rather silly. I also doubt that the stated effect in rates of criminality fall because parents do not spank children but as your pointed out we do not even know what author meant by 'spanking' which does not allow a sensible discussion.
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Did not help at all and i remained a 'disobedient, irrational, problematic child' till i outgrown it on my own well into my 30s. Any young child who may touch the oven and horribly burn themselves needs a slap on the wrist when they approach the oven or other source of danger electricity.
This is best for their safety and health, and is loving. Spanking is one form of beating. It is not okay to beat kids for so many reasons but here are two of the main ones: - Spanking sets a bad example. By spanking, a parent is saying that violence is okay in some situations it is not.
Both mind-states are reactionary and I would imagine might lead to depression. I recommend a book called 'Non-Violent communication' to learn numerous alternatives to spanking. I don't think the author is saying all religious people are horrible monsters. In fact, he states that in Germany, except for one small religious group, more religiosity inversely correlates with spanking.
Spanking, grounding, and yelling: Does old-fashioned discipline work?
Share more about this 12 year old nephew comment - you seem to be in an adversarial relationship. We are not at war with kids. We owe it to them to develop our own skills to teach them to become healthy and independent adults. Spanking is a tactic contrary to this objective.
First, make your stance on spanking crystal clear. But if you remain open to a dialogue so that everyone including the children feels respected and valued, it may at least alleviate conflicts. But researchers who study these issues liken the evidence linking spanking to negative outcomes to the evidence linking cigarette smoking to lung disease. When doctors first discovered the connection between cigarettes and lung cancer, it was entirely correlational. But the patterns were consistent and powerful enough to suggest more.
In the same way that smoking puts you at an increased risk for lung disease but smokers are not guaranteed to develop lung disease , spanking puts children at an increased risk for all of these problems. And the correlation runs on a spectrum. In line with the smoking analogy, it took decades for smoking rates to drop, even after the scientific community agreed that cigarettes were a major contributor to the development of lung cancer. Spanking will likely be the same — if our cultural norms change, it will happen generationally.
Physical punishment, in other words, is a risk factor for some very serious, negative problems that we assume all parents want to avoid for their children. These negative outcomes are not unique to the U. There has been a growing international movement in the last 20 years to make corporal punishment illegal. Thirty-some-odd countries have done so, instituting legal penalties for physical punishment in the name of human rights. After all, humans have human rights; and children are humans.
They have a right not to be hit. But how could I help my son work through a temper tantrum if I threw one myself? What would I be teaching him by spanking him? And for the first time in history, we have a wealth of evidence to back that up. Come learn with us about other more effective, safer ways to manage the insane ups and downs of parenthood. Your email address will not be published.
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