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To which is prefixed a dissertation on the Irish harp and harpers, including an account of the old melodies of Ireland. Hodges and Smith, Added engraved title page. Dublin, Printed at the University Press by R. The physical item used to create this digital version is out of copyright. To find similar items, select the checkboxes next to the characteristics you are interested in, then select the 'Find similar' button. Scottish songs and music of the 18th and early 19th centuries, including music for the Highland bagpipe.
There are more than publications contained in about selected from the collection of John Glen Also available are a few manuscripts, some treatises, and other books on the subject. Glen collection as part of the NLS special named and printed collections. Over volumes from three internationally renowned special collections of printed music. Breaking the relationship can be an emotionally wrenching experience. People deal with it in different ways.
Some pray a lot. Some try to stay friends but create emotional distance. Some quit their jobs to create physical distance. Some simply find one or the other can't totally cut the ties and keeps trying to communicate. Some do more than one of these things. The hardest part, perhaps, is to go home at night, emotionally broken, to an unsuspecting partner, and act like everything is normal. Of course, a perceptive spouse probably knows something is wrong, and is already trying to figure out what it is. For some, the emotional infidelity leads to physical infidelity, and that makes it even harder to break the relationship because of the added intimacy.
Some come to realize that they are really addicted to the excitement of this kind of secret life. They will face more complex problems that those trying to break a relationship they headed into through lack of wisdom when neither meant it to get out of hand. The books I have suggested will help each kind of problem get resolved, but the hardest part is being willing to look at reality and deal with it.
Some people learn from their mistakes, work harder at fixing the problems in their marriages, and all concerned are able to get on with their lives in a healthier way. Some people simply break -- especially if only one sees the need for the relationship to end or is willing to act on it. In each case, choices have to be made and there will be an emotional toll to pay for each possible choice. The best choice would have been to be wise in the beginning by heeding centuries of wise advice. The wise advice is contained in some of the recommended books.
Yet those who have been unwise do not have to give up hope.
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They will have to face their emotional consequences, and it will be painful. But they can change their behavior. There will be relief in no longer living a double life. It will feel good not to carry the old guilt all the time. They can begin to do what is right if they determine to live one day at a time by God's grace. It won't be easy to put your marriage back together when you may not still feel "in love" with your partner, but nothing is too hard for God.
He can help turn your heart back to your spouse, and heal your marriage. It may be hard to believe, but when you rebuild your marriage without the unrealistic expectations you may have had on your wedding day, your marriage can be better than it ever was before. The Christian life is a constant battle between the spirit and the flesh. The Apostle Paul talks about this conflict in Romans 7, which is summarized in verse For I delight in the law of God, in my inmost self, but I see in my members another law at war with the law of my mind and making me captive to the law of sin, which dwells in my members.
We learn that the Spirit helps us in our weakness and helps us to pray as we ought. When we come before God, we must face ourselves and Him honestly and not pretend to be better than we are. We will be tempted. We will sometimes yield to temptation. When we struggle against our own emotions to do what is right and to try to remedy that which we've done wrong, we can cry out to Him with honesty, and receive his forgiveness and strength to fight new battles.
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He promised to heal the broken hearted. The sacrifice acceptable to God is a broken spirit; a broken and contrite heart, O God, thou wilt not despise. To comment on this article, you must sign in or sign up and post using a HubPages Network account. Barb - Very profound indeed and you are right about conflicts like this being a torment to the soul. Hopefully we all make the right choice and we remember not to judge what we would do in any given situation.
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I've known people over the years who made the choice to stick it out but most often, I've found the opposite. People who leave a marriage for one reason or the other usually do have their own reasons though and as much as I sometimes do not agree with it nor see the appropriateness of it, it is between them and their God.
I try to leave it at that. Inevitably though, feelings are crushed along the way and scars created which in my experience in observing, rarely heal. Although I knew only a believer would fully understand such a conflict, I also felt most believers would be shocked at such circumstances, thinking that no true believer would ever have such a dilemma. Yet I know that the truer the believer, the better a target he is for Satan. I have seen many marriages of pastors break up or be compromised, and I personally know of three of them and their stories.
One was a prominent Christian author and teacher. So no one is immune. Some, though, are more willing to go through the struggle of healing the marriage even though it causes pain for a while until trust is established again and love comes back. Each word was like the Spirit of GOD reached to my intermost wretched sinner flesh and Iam so grateful for the Blood of Jesus forgiven, free. But for the Grace of God go I. I felt your spiritual plight and your fleshly pain and your urgency to keep on in Him.
I am touched In Christ Jesus Amen. Up beautiful Phil 4: Denise, my camera goes everywhere with me, and I take many pictures just because they are there to take. I file them away by subject, some in more than one album. I did remember seeing the couple by the lake, and was actually searching that event looking for them as a couple, but, evidently, there was no good way to get the picture without being obtrusive, since that picture of them sitting together doesn't exist.
Instead, I found the one where they were getting ready to leave and looked separate, and found that suited this poem better than what I had looked for. The man on the rock was an accident. I probably didn't notice him until I started looking for beach pictures. And there he was -- just right to illustrate this.
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So when I take pictures, I just never know how they will be used. Thanks for your comment. What of the man or woman who falls in love with a coworker when there is a spouse at home and he or she needs to choose between hurting the new person he wants with his whole heart, and the wife he still likes but is no longer passionate about, who has been there for him for years. What of the married woman who falls in love with her boss? I think of the old movie, An Affair to Remember, as an example of a similar situation.
Someone always gets hurt, but the question is who? And how will he or she handle that hurt?
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One thing to keep in mind -- I often write poetry in the voice of another person who might have confided in me. Everything I write about did not happen to me personally. What an interesting poem. I really was quite taken by it And, I love the photos as well! I enjoyed it so much, even though you have gone through much turmoil.
Your honesty is so touching. And the descriptive words you have chosen relate to us all in one way or the other. I admire your faith. Thank you for your comment. It's easy to break up when you are angry or unhappy with the other party. But when mutual attraction is still there and you still care but you must break a relationship because of your head rather than your heart, the bond still lingers until the passing of time and a new relationship lessen the pull.
You've captured the conflicting desires exquisitely and tormentingly in this poem. Voted up, awesome and interesting. Other product and company names shown may be trademarks of their respective owners. HubPages and Hubbers authors may earn revenue on this page based on affiliate relationships and advertisements with partners including Amazon, Google, and others. To provide a better website experience, letterpile.