Adult Children Secrets of Dysfunctional Families: The Secrets of Dysfunctional Families

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It is estimated that as many as 34 million people grew up in alcoholic homes. But what about the rest of us? What about families that had no alcoholism, but did have perfectionism, workaholism, compulsive overeating, intimacy problems, depression, problems in expressing feelings, plus all the other personality traits that can produce a family system much like an alcoholic It is estimated that as many as 34 million people grew up in alcoholic homes. What about families that had no alcoholism, but did have perfectionism, workaholism, compulsive overeating, intimacy problems, depression, problems in expressing feelings, plus all the other personality traits that can produce a family system much like an alcoholic one?

Countless millions of us struggle with these kinds of dysfunctions every day, and until very recently we struggled alone. Pulling together both theory and clinical practice, John and Linda Friel provide a readable explanation of what happened to us and how we can rectify it. Paperback , pages. Published January 1st by Hci first published January 1st To see what your friends thought of this book, please sign up.

To ask other readers questions about Adult Children , please sign up. Lists with This Book. May 08, Lisa rated it it was amazing Recommends it for: This is the first self-help book I ever read. It shed light on the dynamics of my family of origin and propelled me into recovery. This book may have literally saved my life. I can't recommend it enough if you come from an unhealthy family, no matter the degree of dysfunction.

Insightful, I believe everyone could benefit from this book. First step to fixing the problem is to acknowledge that there is one. Sep 11, Kelly rated it it was amazing. Everyone, no matter what their childhood, should read this book. Nov 08, Laurent rated it it was amazing Shelves: This book had a deep impact on me.


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If you have the vague feeling there's something fucked up in your life but cannot say what, this book is for you. If you cling to your partner or look for a partner like an addict in withdrawal, this book is for you. This book is a treasure about codependency. But what about the rest of us who had a normal chilhood yet live a life of quiet misery?

This book has an answer for these people. Feb 19, Angelina rated it it was amazing. First time reading on the topic dysfunctional family and how such system affects child and later on an adult, "child adult". Personally, I enjoy any psychology book which explores complex human emotions, psychology theories in a simple relatable language.

Adult Children Secrets of Dysfunctional Families The Secrets of Dysfunctional Families

For me, this book, delivers just that. If you are looking for some techniques, tools of overcoming "adult child within" I would say, it isn't a go to book. It certainly a go to book to increase an awareness on the topic and acknowledge if you have an issue. I think this book should be read by everyone at least once for its insights on emotional behaviour. I think readers who can benefit from this book are: Sadness is a normal, healthy response to loss I made mistake therefore I am a mistake.

It comes from damaging interpersonal bridge between 2 people, in particular when relationship comes in question. Shame can cause ostracism. Meanwhile,unhealthy guilt tells us that we have done something wring when we really haven't, and thus it provides a lot of energy and drive to keep us paralised". Important to overt covert behaviour by understanding emotional secret driving the behaviour, to do so its important to let it out in without shame or blame, especially if the secret doesn't serve a healthy purpose. Co-dependency is dysfunctional pattern of living, which emerges from our family of origin, culture, producing arrested identity development and resulting in an over reaction to the things outside of us and an under reaction to things inside of us.

Left untreated it can lead to an addiction. Symptoms of co dependency are: But if you listen to me just right, and learn to make friends with me, then will you have a wisdom". Sep 11, Heather Johnson rated it it was amazing. This review has been hidden because it contains spoilers. To view it, click here. This was a very succinct set of descriptions as it relates to those having been raised in dysfunctional households. There were many times when I had to just say, "those were words I did not have to describe what I was experiencing".

I am praying to undo any harm done to my children and to mature with compassion from this level of growth. I will do the best I can with what I have available, like everyone else.

Dec 07, Sophia rated it it was amazing Shelves: My entire life I had been dealing with symptoms of a dysfunctional childhood without realizing just how many of my symptoms can be attributed to it. The Body Keeps the Score. Bessel van der Kolk. Codependent No More Workbook. Psychopath Free Expanded Edition. Fifty Shades of Grey.

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