A Love Out of Time

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Thousands and thousands of women suffer under the misapprehension that you're propagating in this article - that they are obliged to inform their male partner where they are at all times - and so they slip into abusive relationships that break them down. But I'm sure the male partners are happy about it. This definitely comes under the category of obsessing about one's partner, and, as you pointed out, Anonymous, this is a red flag People in a relationship, no matter how ardent it is, must allow their partner his or her space, or the relationship is doomed from the start, because both parties need privacy, if one gets the drift.

Also, being obsessive over one's partner and constantly thinking about him or her to the point where it interferes with one's normal life and activities, is also a dangerous red flag.

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Again, it's important to cultivate one's own individual interests, etc. It does not end up as becoming abusive relationship. It seems like people aren't really reading this article and just glossing over it. Obsession is bad, but the writer did say this was about people who have been together for a very long time. At this point it's not stalking. You care about your family, so you are interested in their safety and health. That's normal, good, proper. It's being concerned about them. Staying in touch, like with cell phones is a good example. You wouldn't assume the person is obsessed if they've been married for a decade.

It's just normal to be involved in their daily life. It would only be wrong if they admitted to doing it because they didn't trust the other person. But then why would they take part in this test? They'd have lied when they said they were happily married. Dear Anonymous, I realize that the findings of this study might have these implications, but you have to read it carefully because these are not extreme behaviors that the authors have talked about, nor have I.

Sorry you think that the points are nonsense, but I invite you to check out the actual study and decide for yourself how to interpret the findings. If you would like, I can send you the article. Just email me back channel. I agree with anonymous above. These "tips" are at best, obvious, and at worst, propagating potentially abusive behaviours, many of which do not or should not exist outside the "honeymoon" phase.

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We have been married for 26 years. I believe I bend over backwards for my spouse and he barely bends any way. Trying to figure out his texts is also real fun. I showed my married daughter one last month and she was a little baffled as well. I give in to his demands finally to keep the peace. Went to a marriage counselor which was a disaster.

I don't have any idea how to change it around. We used to be interested in the same things but no longer. He has no interest in my interests and I never have liked golf although I do encourage him I feel I am too selfish many times. This is a great article Love is that emotion that binds us together and in some cases keep us balance and in control of our lives. I disagree with many of these.

It seems to imply that in order to have a healthy, strong relationship, you should be very attached to your partner. I say, the love should outweigh the need. I'm able to focus on what needs my attention without being distracted by thoughts of my girl, but when time permits, I love thinking about her. I love her very much, but I do not need her, and she shares that sentiment; I wouldn't have it any other way.

I don't need to always know her whereabouts, either. She is not my property, and can do as she pleases. A large part of a strong, healthy relationship is trust. Let go of the attachment; know that one day, some way, the relationship you have now will end. It's not sad, it's true. A lot of research and human experience disagrees with you. This article is about what makes a relationship last, and if you think your method will work for everyone it certainly won't. In general, the silly things that attract people to each other are what can hold them together.

In the long run it's a big deal. It's not the whole story but you can't rule it out when so many people say how it works for them. Also, why tell people "one day, the relationship you have now will end"? Sure it might, but it doesn't have to. It's not really good to think "Well, this will end someday anyways" if you're looking for how to succeed at a committed relationship. Dear Anonymous, I understand what you're saying, but I was summarizing an article that to me seemed well grounded in data.

That said, there are many nuances especially in complex relationships. You've expressed your feelings very well and your girl is lucky to have you! Hi there i find the comment "love no attached " good. The secret to long-term relationship: All this talk about "romance"--a word that has a connotation of fantasy--is too much. Love is simply extending yourself for somebody else's spiritual growth. We are all bigger than romantic fantasy thus romantic fantasy will never be enough.

And, obviously, romantic fantasy cannot carry a longterm relationship. Many do not have a longterm relationship because "extending yourself" is just not as attractive as losing myself in a fantasy. One thing is certain: At the end of the day, doesn't it come down to compatibility? If you sustain long-term compatibility, you are most likely to enjoy a long-term relationship. So how does one know if they do or will enjoy long-term compatibility? I like the admiration approach Hayden Dane put forth in his brief e-book at www. It's a simple but novel concept with important implications for relationships.

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When all is said and done, who's going to remember the selfish person as any thing other than "a selfish person". A loving, giving, serving person will be remember by all whose lives were touched. Humm - well that sums it all up for me. On to a Divorce Lawyer as not one of the 12 related to me at all. Its been 22 years but what the heck -. I bet you have not been a prize to him either. That is a shame. But you can't love anyone until you love yourself. Anyone willing to throw away 22 years of marriage needs to work on their moral principles first and which is usually led by a host of problems.

I would seek God for some answers before I threw away a partner that he gave you. But that is me.. During my lifetime, I've had 10 marriage proposals and one failed marriage. My first marriage was a sea of unhappy arguing and fighting. It was me, not him. I couldn't rest until I found my soulmate. I tried very hard to salve the restlessness, but nothing worked. I had given up. Then one night, I turned to speak to someone sitting to my right, and at that moment I was moon struck.

Everybody else in the room stopped existing. I knew I would spend the rest of my life with this man. We both instantly knew something that we could never explain to anybody else. There were no words to explain it. It has nothing to do with happiness or unhappiness of the individuals. It has nothing to do with expanded life experiences. It has nothing to do with communication skills, because we both have horrible communication skills. It has nothing to do with honesty my husband tells constant little white lies , and as much as I want to hold him responsible for his lies and punish him, the love forces me to forgive even when I don't want to forgive.

It has nothing to do with romance. The love is greater and stronger than the individuals. In short, the love is greater and stronger than all of our weaknesses combined. We are both stuck in this together, and neither of us is strong enough to break the bond. The only thing we can do is to make the best of it, because we can make ourselves miserable, or we can make the best of it by trying to make each other happy. Neither of us has any control over it. It is an entity all its own. We could split up, but then we both know that we would be a hundredfold more miserable than any miserable that we could ever shower the other with.

And with each passing year, the love grows stronger and stronger. It is an awesome power, and my husband and I are its students.

Love on the Edge of Time

You write this article as though you are trying to have some control over love, as though you think there is some measure of control. There is no control. What you are doing in your article is the same mistake I made with my first marriage: You're trying to fit a square peg in a round hole. You're talking about settling. Innocent Eyes Japan Innocent Eyes: Ten Year Anniversary Acoustic Edition.

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Views Read Edit View history. This page was last edited on 16 September , at By using this site, you agree to the Terms of Use and Privacy Policy. Netherlands Single Top [8]. South Africa Springbok Radio [10]. And, the fights on the way to the grocery store about what you are going to have for dinner, well, that is reality but not romance. In this book, you get some of the reality and some of the romance. As it is in the blurb, it is not a spoiler to say that you also get the romance through more than one lifetime, you see them in years past and in a bunch of other scenarios.

This is, I think, one of the parts of the book that makes it feel so different.

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The writing is strong and the characters are interesting. Is this a totally conventional romance? I recommend this title. Nov 21, Courtney rated it it was amazing Shelves: You never cease to amaze me with your story-telling abilities. And this book is just another example of your amazing mind and how you are so easily able to sweep readers off their feet and pull them into a story like no other. I really have no idea how to start this review. Julie has truly outdone herself with this one. Can you two lives truly be destined to be together so much that their lives are entwined throughout history??

They are fated to find one another each time onl Julie, Julie, Julie. They are fated to find one another each time only to be separated for one reason or another? And then when they have both hit rock bottom in their lives, one purposely sabotaging their life and the other just continues going on benders because it's what he does. But now they both want to get a hold of their lives and fix their problems. Is it fate that leads them to the psychiatrist? And when their sessions have them reliving historical moments, it's just crazy. That's all I can say. How Julie intertwined both Kylie and Jesse's lives and then adding in Claire's influence on them, I am in awe of her writing talent.

There are so many twists and turns in this book, that you find yourself not wanting to put this book down. Learning the answers to everything, while some we may not like as much as others, it was just captivating to watch everything come together. Please know that going into this book, it is not your typical romance story. It was one that transcends times in so many ways, that if will leave your reflecting on things.

Nov 06, Konny rated it it was amazing. Love on the Edge of Time by the outstanding author Julie A. Richman is a full-length, standalone, romance novel. Love on the Edge of Time is a book that stays with you. And youll need tissues, consider you warned. This is Jesse and Kylies story. Jesse Winslow is a bad boy rock star and Kylie Martin is a former pageant queen. Both have issues and baggage and fight their demons. They are patients of Dr. Claire Stoddard, a successful psychiatrist.

And there they meet. Both have this crazy insta-chemistry. You can practically feel their emotions in the words. Everything could be sunshine and roses, but no, now their story begins. Let me tell you, this book gutted me, I had more than one ugly cry, hence the tissues. This book was nothing like expected and everything I could have asked for at the same time. I've smiled, laughed, cried and was angry at some point. It is not often I feel so connected to the characters, but Julie A. Richman has accomplished just that.

I love the story, the writing and the words. I love the characters, I could feel their emotions in the words. Thank you so much, Julie Richman!! Nov 09, Michelle Simpson rated it it was amazing. After reading this book I really felt like I had been on the long journey along with Kylie and Jesse, I don't usually enjoy stories with a historical story line however this book left me speechless and a little heartbroken.

The Author has done an amazing job of transporting you to the past and back to the present making the story truly believable. They say opposites attract and Kylie and Jesse were definitely that, although they have a lot more in common than they first thought. They have never After reading this book I really felt like I had been on the long journey along with Kylie and Jesse, I don't usually enjoy stories with a historical story line however this book left me speechless and a little heartbroken. They have never met before their "accidental" meeting but why have they got this instant connection like they have known each other for years, its not long until they both start sharing their secrets that telling anyone else is not an option, they wouldn't understand and think they were mad.

Can they change their future in time? You wont be disappointed. Mar 29, Stephanie Rose rated it it was amazing. Nov 07, Adrian rated it it was amazing Shelves: This is the best book I've read in a long time. It's a contemporary romance with a historical twist, definitely not like any other book out there. It's equal parts romantic and steamy with real, flawed characters you can't help but love. The writing is seamless and smooth and you'll be drawn in and hooked from the beginning.

Let me start by saying, this book is unlike anything you will have read before. The romance revealed literally does span the expanse of time. I am, weirdly, the type of person who rarely reads book blurb in detail. I pick out the odd words which capture my interest. For this book it was: Now, having finished the book, and re-read the blurb, properly, I can see that I clearly missed so muc Fate or Destiny Now, having finished the book, and re-read the blurb, properly, I can see that I clearly missed so much when preparing to start this story.

Having not read anything by the author before, I was delighted to have been accepted to receive an ARC of this book. Right from the very beginning, I knew this story was going to be something special. I was quickly drawn to the characters and the unusual way in which they met. Jesse Winslow has a cool, easy going, devilishly attractive personality and image and Kylie Martin is quirky, intriguing and mysterious.

When the pair meets, little do they know that they unwittingly set about a chain reaction which will see them face pain, suffering, love, happiness and a whole host of other unforeseen emotions and situations, and this is not for the first time in their lives. Attending the same psychiatrist, one for drug and drink related problems, Jesse, and the other for an eating disorder, Kylie, they both decide to go down the regression hypnotherapy route to see what, if anything, could be forgotten from their early lives which could be affecting who they are today.

For some reason, their psychiatrist, Dr Claire Stoddard, takes them both, independently, down the past life regression road and soon, and totally unexpectedly, she reawakens long-lost life events for both Jesse and Kylie. With more sessions comes more revelations for both Kylie and Jesse and whilst, to me, their past lives seemed to clash with my expectations for this story, again, having not read the blurb properly, I struggled to see where the author was taking their tale.

Have no fear though, as the story progresses, all of the mystery is revealed, by the bucket load. From what initially started as a hesitant but sweet romance story, this book suddenly morphs into a spellbinding tale of long lost love. Their love is physically and emotionally on another plane, and you eventually realise just why this is. Their lives suddenly and unexpectedly become intertwined and with a third party ever present in their unusual love triangle, their future looks to be in as much jeopardy as their past.

But can Jesse and Kylie find a way to stop history from repeating itself before it is too late? Whilst having ups and downs reading this story, I did really enjoy it. I seemed to have question after question popping up in my mind throughout the book and these questions were all answered by the end of the story. I loved Jesse and Kylie and their breathtaking bond and even cried a tear or two for them.

Embrace the story and the ending will be all the more rewarding. This ebook was kindly provided by the author prior to release in return for an honest and unbiased review. We are proud to provide honest and unbiased reviews written from the heart. Love on the Edge of Time by Julie Richman 4 stars!!! Julie Richman never fails to deliver exceptionally heart felt stories and Love on the Edge of Time was no different, the emotion and the character connection was all on point and it is these attributes that really suck you in, taking you along for one hell of a ride.

But when the evidence is before you that it does exist, do you go with the flow or fight? This was an inspiring read and really leaves your brain running a mile a minute. Let the words transport you, envelope you, and take you on one emotional roller coaster. With flashbacks to the past I was totally engrossed as Julie Richman showed her true talent.

At times I did feel the flashbacks were a little too long and took me out of the present, but sometimes it was like reading a story within a story that brought a whole new dimension to this overall. Like an angel who came into my life. The ending I never saw coming and I admire the author for delivering the story the characters demanded. That's my weakness, Rockstar Romance. I'm also a fan of the author's Moore series.

So, I just dived in, having no clue what I was getting into. After careful consideration I determined that it really was there, I just missed it Are you confused yet? Welcome to my world! Jesse's life is out of control. He's th "Fade to white. When he does outrageous things, it just gets him more media attention. His fans forgive him anything and he just keeps sinking deeper and deeper into the darkness.

It's only when his bandmates threaten to kick him out of the band that he realizes he may have gone too far.

My friends and I are single, childless – and running out of time

He's been in and out of rehab, and it's never stuck before. This time he's determined to stay clean. He's going to a psychiatrist who's trying to help him dig into his past to discover what is causing his destructive behavior. Kylie is out of control on purpose.


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    4. She's tired of being told what to do and how to do it. She threw away her career by gaining weight, and she doesn't regret it. She's going to see a psychiatrist, but she's not sure why. She can't stand that bitch! She can't resist provoking the uptight Dr. And I can't resist giggling every time she does it. Even with my serious addiction to rockstars, I think I fell for Kylie more than Jesse, she's that awesome.

    This is where the WTF?

    That's something that you are just going to have to read and evaluate for yourself. It's outside the box, something I haven't explored previously. Something that I maybe would not have chosen if I had been aware of it in advance. An eye-opening experience that stretched my boundaries and pushed my limits a bit. Once I was in, I stayed there, too intrigued to not get my answers and at the same time afraid to go where I was headed.

    I hated, and I hurt. I smiled, and I seethed. I waited, and I worried. I raged, and I rocked. I laughed, and I lost I sighed at the beautiful, emotional lyrics. I cheered at their triumph over triggers. I loved seeing Schooner and Zac. I was wowed by the visuals the author gave me with her words. The places she took me and the beauty she showed me. It was an unforgettable experience, but not for the faint of heart.

    Nov 15, D rated it it was amazing. Julie Richman has outdone herself. She put herself out there and wrote a story completely off the grid from conventional. And what she created was a beautiful and heartbreaking story of "love conquers all. Each of these lifetimes more heartbreaking and more revealing than the one before. But in that heartbreak, Richman builds a love that knows no boundaries, that gets stronger each time and transcends time. A love that is eternal. I Oh my heck! I absolutely loved how Richman tied in a couple of characters from her previous books without taking away from these new characters-- almost where you didn't realize it was known characters until a few pages later.

    Julie Richman also has a way of making dirty sex so sensual and something beyond the physical and more about the emotional and cerebral connection between the two characters. Her characters always have an incredible chemistry that make the sex scenes a bonus rather than gratuitous filler. Love on the Edge of Time is such a full story not unlike all of Richman's stories. From the very first page, the reader is swept away into the story. I didn't want to put it down. Both Kylie and Jesse's journeys took me in so many directions.

    It engulfed me without suffocating me. Love on the Edge of Time was passion, love, healing, strength, life, death, purpose. Love on the Edge of Time is nothing you've read before and everything you should read. Well done Julie Richman and bravo for taking the risk on something different, on something that makes the reader reflect and think. Nov 15, Dawn Nicole Costiera rated it really liked it.