Love and War in Intimate Relationships: Connection, Disconnection, and Mutual Regulation in Couple T

Love and War in Intimate Relationships: Connection, Disconnection, and Mutual Regulation in Couple Therapy (Norton Series on Interpersonal Neurobiology).
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How can couples therapists help deescalate the battles? The neurobiologically-grounded and sensitive approach se What happens between partners that makes love turn to war? The neurobiologically-grounded and sensitive approach set forth by Solomon and Tatkin in this book is sure to transform the way clinicians understand and treat couples in therapy.

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Oct 27, Shelley rated it really liked it. Great book for mental health providers working with couples, or individuals with relationship issues, particularly those who practice or believe in Attachment Theory and psychodynamic object relations principles. The author provides a thorough overview of attachment theory, illustrated with excellent examples from real cases from actual clinical practice.

Great book for couple therapist Such a great resource to couple therapists. I highlighted most of the book! This book offers techniques, but reaffirms the therapeutic arch of secure-functioning and healthy dependence.


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Neuroscience is relevantly applied and understandable. May 25, Julene rated it it was amazing Shelves: Excellent book about how Stan works with couples. Case studies show his concepts.


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Please verify that you are not a robot. Would you also like to submit a review for this item? You already recently rated this item. Your rating has been recorded. Write a review Rate this item: Preview this item Preview this item. Love and war in intimate relationships: Norton series on interpersonal neurobiology. Here, noted clinicians Marion Solomon and Stan Tatkin offer a paradigm-changing psychobiological approach to couple therapy, which brings a new lens to the relational issues that create problems between intimate partners, offers new ways to effect change, and promises new possibilities for transformation.

Drawing from cutting-edge neurobiological and attachment research and examining the ways the brain and mind affect the dynamics of attachment, the authors explore the context of a couple's attachment history, explaining how interactions with our early caregivers can be recreated in adult primary attachment relationships.

Establishing their shared vision of intimate relationships as a locus of safety and security, they explain how key moments of emotional disconnection can spark negative cycles that take over partners' behavior and communication, and, without intervention, destroy a relationship.

This is where the psychobiological approach conies in.