I Love You Madly! On Passion, Personality and Personal Growth

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That is, the patient's and the therapist's erotized love could both be a resistance to treatment enacting conflicts rather than resolving them through insight. Fenchel writes about Freud's concerns, "When the patient acts upon them too uninhibitedly, he says she needs to be reminded of 'social morality'!

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Does it not seem somewhat contradictory, however, that Freud in instructing us that transference love is the cornerstone of psychoanalysis Clearly, the concept created tension for him as it threaten the very staid moral climate of early 20th century Vienna. How indeed, in such a climate, was one to sell the idea of a cure that relied upon 'falling in love with one's doctor' as a necessary enactment to work through the aspects of infantile incestuous sexual wishes for one's parents siblings and guardians?


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Fenchel points out that Freud appreciated the importance of a humane concern for the patient. However, Freud realized that although love might have healing powers, its failure might lead to suffering and trauma.

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In addition, maturation and sublimation comes about by not gratifying primitive needs. With the safe guards of the ground rules, Freud considered analysis as a reeducation facilitated by the love in transference.

Groddeck viewed illness as having the element of the pleasure of suffering and the hoped for return to the nurturing good mother. Groddeck felt that a loving safe relationship was an essential aspect of cure. Ferenczi and later Balint also considered the defects or basic fault in the foundation of character that needed repair by a loving relationship with the analyst. Fenchel looks at Laing, Hohut, Winnicott, Thompson, Gans, Mitchell and Aron, Ogden, May, Mann, Bachant, and Loewald, all of whom have found ways to bring love and empathy into the analytic frame without falling into the slippery slope of derailment and harm.

Fenchel carefully presents his argument that psychoanalysts are soldiers of Eros armed with loving concern, empathy and limits to help the patient resolve deficits and conflicts. Fenchel does not speak of a reaction formation type of faked 'love', but rather an existential intimacy that is constructive at the hands of a highly skilled professional.

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Fenchel armed with Eros extends Freud's psychoanalysis as a treatment of both love and truth. Fenchel begins his book with a cultural observation, " In the chapter, "Love" Fenchel quotes Brenner, " I go from evolutionary history and biology to current psychological context with five main contributions to passion: As people mature, the instinctive pressures fade and more positive introjects, healthy values and reality contribute to loving. Since we are not swans, we need to work hard at learning to love better and the psychoanalytic intimacy is the best means for learning this later in life.

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Fenchel notes of the narcisstic aim of romantic love, "The problem with such narcissistic cures, however Fenchel does not believe that symbolization is inborn. The capacity to achieve symbolization, however, can be adversely affected if the infant is overwhelmed by strong affects in the early stages of its development. It needs a 'good enough' maternal environment if the process of symbolization is to take root. In the chapter, "Freud on Love," Fenchel begins with, "Freudian tradition places love at the center of his theoretical formulations Will they learn to love better?

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